How to separate Xiaosan pregnancy
1. Don’t treat yourself as a victim
Why not treat yourself as a victim, this is because if you are a victim, you will determine that you have no power to fight against Primary Three.In addition, putting yourself in the position of the victim, it is easy to want to win the sympathy of the outside world. In the case of losing rationality, it is easy to raise your husband’s derailment. At that time, everyone knows that the Primary Three will have children.And men attach great importance to their image.
It is also secretly looking for Primary School after a man’s marriage, so once you destroy his image and preach his deeds. Once he reveals that he may break the jar, he may even take the initiative to say that you are not, and propose divorce to indicate that he is the victim.Position.Therefore, in the face of her husband’s derailment, Xiaosan has children. First of all, we must have self -confidence at this time, and we have the ability to deal with it.
2. Don’t treat him too much
The husband was derailed, and the original match often had a misunderstanding. When he found that his husband was derailed, he was not good at him.In fact, in his opinion, it is only at the default derailment, and it may even intensify.Now that Primary Three has a child with a child, it has endangered your status. If you do n’t shoot at this time, and choose to be unknown, wait until Primary Three gave birth to a child, and a man may eventually choose not to divorce because of your "enlightenment", and you can keep it.This marriage, but in the next few decades, you may have to bear the painful days of your husband’s derailment.
Therefore, don’t be better to him because your husband derails. You should have your own position and principles. First, communicate with him his recent performance and your doubts.At the same time, you should maintain your own life, take care of yourself, not crying, no quarrel, and live a good life, let him know that you can live a wonderful life even if he has no other.
3. Specific analysis of specific issues
There is no doubt that the man is derailed and has a child with Xiaosan. Of course, it is his fault, but we also have to think about the reason for his derailment.There are many reasons for extramarital affairs. You may wish to find time with him to sit down and communicate well, talk calmly about your problems, and then analyze and solve it.Not only can he end his absurd relationship with Primary Three as soon as possible, but also improve the relationship between you, heat up the relationship, and greatly reduce the possibility of the other party derailment again.
Only by solving the fundamental problem of your marriage can you make your husband and Xiao San clear the boundaries. In addition, it is particularly troublesome that Xiao San has children. This is difficult to deal with.Success and timely consult the professional separation of the professional.
How to let Xiaosan get rid of the child
1. Faithfulness and calmness, carefully analyze
First of all, put aside the identity of each other and the primary three, and calmly analyze how pitiful children who are not accompanied by their father often accompany them. Born in an abnormal family how cruel it is to their children, an incomplete family will destroy the child’s life.Mother’s love is the most selfless and the greatest. As a mother, you cannot be so selfish, and you must consider it for your child.
2. Destroy you and destroy your child
It is difficult to tell her to raise a child alone.As a single mother, you have to take care of your child’s life. If the child asked where his father went, what do you say, if the child knows the truth, what do you think of the child?
Whether it is economical or emotional, the child is destroyed, and your life is destroyed, so I hope you can think twice.
3. Pressure in high posture
Why did Xiao San refuse to abandon abortion?It is because Xiaosan wants to be in place. At this time, you have to learn to use your identity to put pressure on. Do not let Xiaosan think that if you have a child, you can succeed in the superior and achieve her purpose.As long as your husband does not have this idea, you can confidently defend your status and express a resolute attitude, so that she can feel that she can use her child to achieve the goal from the bottom of her heart and defeat her from her heart.
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